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A recent analysis by the Pew Research Center indicates a significant trend among high school girls regarding their views on marriage. Fewer young women envision themselves marrying in the future, prompting questions about the cultural narratives influencing their aspirations and decisions.
A study from the University of Michigan reveals that only 61%<\/strong> of 12th-grade girls express a desire to marry, a decline from 83%<\/strong> in 1993. Meanwhile, the percentage of boys wishing to marry remains stable at 74%<\/strong>. This shift marks a notable change in youth perspectives on relationships and family.
The impact of media on marriage perceptions
Experts, including JP De Gance, founder of the marriage ministry Communio, suggest that changing storytelling in media may contribute to this trend. He notes that traditional narratives often found in Disney films<\/strong>, which celebrated the idea of happily ever after<\/em>, have evolved to emphasize individuality and personal growth.
De Gance points out that the classic portrayal of a prince rescuing a princess, evident in films like Tarzan<\/strong>, has diminished. Contemporary movies, such as the live-action remake of Snow White<\/strong>, have altered or omitted romantic elements, focusing instead on themes of self-reliance and adventure.
Changing family discussions
The way parents discuss marriage also significantly influences their children’s views. De Gance, married for over two decades and a father of eight, highlights that many parents prioritize independence, education, and career success over traditional family values.
This focus on personal achievement may inadvertently suggest to children that marriage is secondary, something to pursue after reaching personal goals. De Gance argues for a balanced approach, stating, “nobody is truly independent in life,” emphasizing the need for guidance on forming healthy interdependence in relationships.
Consequences of changing priorities
The shifting perspectives on marriage are evident in young people’s views on parenthood. Only 48%<\/strong> of high school seniors in 2025 believed they were very likely to want children, down from 64%<\/strong> in 1993. This statistic reflects a growing trend of reconsidering traditional family structures.
De Gance advocates for a redefined perception of marriage, suggesting it should not merely be viewed as a personal goal achieved after other ambitions but as a foundational aspect of adult life contributing to overall happiness. Research indicates that married individuals, especially those with children, report higher satisfaction and fulfillment levels.
Promoting positive narratives about marriage
At Communio, De Gance and his team actively work with churches nationwide to foster a more positive understanding of marriage. They aim to counter misconceptions, such as the belief that half of all marriages end in divorce. By sharing accurate information about the benefits of marriage, they hope to inspire a renewed appreciation for family life among young people.
De Gance urges parents, community leaders, and faith organizations to collaborate in sharing uplifting stories about marriage and family. He emphasizes that it is essential for young people to learn about the joys and rewards of committed relationships, rather than solely focusing on challenges.
Cultural implications
A study from the University of Michigan reveals that only 61%<\/strong> of 12th-grade girls express a desire to marry, a decline from 83%<\/strong> in 1993. Meanwhile, the percentage of boys wishing to marry remains stable at 74%<\/strong>. This shift marks a notable change in youth perspectives on relationships and family.0